i read somewhere one time about thanking people instead of apologizing and it feels really good when you put it into practice. thank them for waiting instead of apologizing for being late. express gratitude for their understanding instead of focusing on your mistake. it’s a really simple switch in mindset but it changes a lot. it also makes the times you do apologize really mean something.



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Find out your Chapman’s Love Language Here: http://neurolove.me/post/49816887462/which-love-language-do-you-speak
be sure to understand ur s/o’s way of showing affection and make them aware of yours.. some ppl show affection by buying u things and some ppl will say I love u a million times and some will make u breakfast some will leave u the last ice cream, but it’s really important to know about these things bc u could not notice them and feel unloved while your s/o feels taken for granted and it’s just all a big misunderstanding so please talk about these things





Just because a decision hurts that doesn’t mean it was a wrong decision.




Love doesn’t need to make me reckless. Love should make me calmer and wiser over time. This has been a learning experience. Sometimes you don’t know your boundaries, and you have to grow them at a moment’s notice. Don’t let anyone penalize you for the thorns you’ve sprouted. New knowledge transforms us all accordingly. I know more about myself now than ever before. It’s taken everyone I’ve ever tried to love to get me here. But getting it wrong still has its pleasures and rewards. I am soft in old places, hard in new ones. I am releasing all the shame and trusting the ways I’ve changed.




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